The topic of priorities, being more complicated in ordinary life, the more confused young parents. With new responsibilities, dispersed attention and a mass of incomprehensibilities, it is many times more difficult to find the right thing for yourself, because the kid always introduces new nuances into the familiar life. Of course, a few months after birth, and more often after the first name-day of the baby, many parameters of the old life still come back, but the time is passing, so it's time for parents to reflect on the direction of their Priorities and the correctness of the movement.
It is important to note that all goals are oriented toward the set result. Here is an example: if you want to rest and not overstrained to achieve a certain goal, then moments of rest will be priorities for you, but they will try to achieve. In order not to lose important components in this way, one must objectively assess their capabilities. It is this approach that will not let these elements be ignored, subconsciously deleting them from the priority tasks.
Successful self-realization, which has recently been studied in the context of a highly paid job with great prospects for career growth. Thus, even when confidently following a certain financial goal,
. Choosing what to focus on is half the way.
To achieve goals as quickly and efficiently as possible, simply it is necessary to divide priorities into primary and secondary . This does not mean that you first need to do things. Priorities should be set taking into account the importance. For example, in the case of the young mother of an infant, the priorities are caring for the child, preparing food for her and her husband, rest and, only after all of the above. And let it sounds strange, but the health of the mother, the joy of the baby and the satiety of the spouse are completely independent of the washed windows and the cleaned plate. At the same time, no one calls to go to extremes and ignore everything that does not concern the basic priorities, however the distribution of the physical forces is very important .
Whoever finds it is difficult to prioritize mentally, time management experts recommend making lists. In a symbolic table, the top row will have the highest priority, and all subsequent tasks will have a smaller priority. In this case, of course, with time, priorities can change places, be supplemented or even deleted. Typical simple priorities lists are usually mummies. Such hints help to distribute time, not forgetting about important matters. Some hang of a sheet of information on the refrigerator, others place it near the mirror. In any case, wherever you hang up a magic plan of action, it will help accumulate the forces and direct them to the right things.
The urgency of specific priorities should be set by yourself , this means that, regardless of the circumstances, the chronology of the tasks will still be preserved.
Sometimes, in the same direction, it is unclear what to spend more energy on. Then, at this stage, the priority will be found directly from the resources, factors and opportunities. Feel, analyze, simulate the situation and try to collect the necessary information. This will help to clarify for yourself many questions.
Given the importance of actions in the present, it is very important to prioritize for a given period of time without projecting the situation for the future. After all, the next steps open the view of the whole way.
Some habits, situations and actions do not even deserve low priority status, so safely cross them out of your list and life. Do not get caught up in nonsense and then really important questions will come up among the chaos of all available information.
For priorities to be fixed on a subconscious level, you will go to a new level and will do everything many times faster.
I sincerely wish good luck in achieving all the goals set and the distribution of priorities, even in routine domestic affairs.