Do not kill the dream!
Children's dream! Such a fabulous, inspiring and capacious concept. And do you know about your child's childhood dream?
Children often fantasize and make assumptions about the future, so parents do not always pay attention to such reasoning. Someone observes interesting moments in cartoons, someone is keen on the fate of the hero of the tale. By the way, it is important to understand that children's dreams do not always concern the future profession or cherished toys, sometimes they are much deeper and more serious than one might imagine.
You can learn about the dreams of babies during the game, but with older children it's better to talk frankly. What is it for? To get an additional opportunity to show your child his unconditional love. It is the moment of adoption of the baby as it is, with naive and sweet fantasies, with bizarre reflections and unusual reasoning, strengthens the relationship and fills it with positive energy.
Draw the unique power of love and patience in communicating with the child! And do not kill his dreams. Let them look ridiculous or unrealistic, but if the child has fantasized something for himself, be sure to support him in this endeavor. Say, my daughter decided to become a fashion designer. Do not rush to frighten her with serious aspects of this profession and how many years you have to study for self-realization. You can not discuss these details, but ask to show the finished work or draw a sketch of dresses for the doll. Opportunities to inquire the details of the ideas that have arisen are always numerous, but the dry answers, sharply breaking off the interest of just a few. Do not go groveling along the way, let the child's cherished dream form.
Of course, in thousands of cases, children forget about a specific dream and switch to others, are addicted to new stories, discover other interests, but there is a chance that the cherished dream voiced today will become the child's guiding star in adult life and then, having committed Mistake and not supporting your beloved son or a precious daughter in her deeds, you will all your life reproach yourself for what you have done.
Remember, to love, to support and to help is always more correct and easier than to scold and teach mind to reason. Create a well-being in the family, set the relatives to positive vibrations, form a positive environment and then the children will certainly be happy.
To understand the relationship with the baby, I offer to sincerely answer myself to just a few questions, for example:
1. Do you listen carefully to your child?
2. How often are you on the side of your child?
3. What do you know about his cherished desires?
4. What ideas were supported and helped to implement?
5. How do you motivate kids to achieve their goals?
Naturally, the list can be replenished to infinity, based on the life situation and the existing relationship with the baby. Try to be sincere in answering such questions, because this is not a test for an ideal parent, but rather an accessible and simple way to clarify important points for yourself. And remember, good parents are not born, they become!