What does crying suggest?
Tears, it's not just sadness and sadness. Crying is given to babies by nature, as a unique and absolutely universal way of communication. Expressing her emotions, the baby demonstrates her desires. And this is not always the requirement of food.
Dissatisfaction with something is expressed in the first months of life, precisely by eloquent, piercing weeping, that is, the requirement to immediately attract attention. Like everything in nature, such a method is ideal. It is great for attracting the attention of my mother, wherever she is and whatever she does. Given the strongest energy connection between the baby and mom, baby crying causes a whole range of emotions. Many mothers at the same time quite simply characterize their reaction to the cry of the baby. So to stay unnoticed.
Depending on the age of the crumbs and the basic objective characteristics of crying, you can determine what exactly is bothering the baby. A child can cry from hunger or cold, may ask to be embraced, may complain of colic in the tummy. Thirst and high temperature will also cause a feeling of discomfort, respectively, the child will begin to cry. A few months after the birth of the baby, many mothers begin to understand the characteristics of the smallest color of the crying crumbs and the master of the complex. Even the usual pattering and walking of the baby for the experienced Mom tell a lot.
It is believed that children of preschool age are crying fretfully or in pain. In most cases, it is, but the tears of the child can mean much more. Some kids whimper even slightly sad, others react so to injustice. Some children find it hard to fight their own shyness and domination, scream when they do not want to eat. The reasons, as well as situations, can be set. In order not to make a child, roar out of good intentions, it is necessary to explain everything that is happening around and offer. The child must realize that it is not necessary to demand anything by crying. Opportunities to draw the attention of parents and other adults, and also insist on their own interests much more than snotty options for the manifestation of emotions .
Given the rather lengthy process of adaptation to the society, as well as the time required for training, behavioral patterns and etiquette norms, it is quite difficult to require total control of emotions from children. Sharp outbursts of feelings, mood swings, difficult situations, and all sorts of other factors. If such a time occurs in the life of the baby, not too often, there is nothing to worry about. Each of us sometimes needs psycho-emotional relaxation.
Some children skillfully manipulate parents and relatives with tears . Usually hysterics happen only when there are spectators. This means that, under the same conditions, the child will surely be weeping at her mother's. To prevent this from happening, control your behavior. Do not rush to the aid and do not go to extremes, cursing the baby. Try to demonstrate to your child your invariable attitude to such antics. There are at least two options for the reaction:
- completely ignore the hysterics and do your own business;
- sit down beside the kid in a calm voice (even if it does not seem to listen to you) explain that it's not worth capricious. Underline the intonation of your conditions. Only you can get what you want the other way.
Try as often as possible to tell the baby about how to negotiate, ask about what you want, tell about your cherished dreams. Focus on the fact that everyone has needs and desires.
Water grinds the stone, does not it? A good, correct example of behavior.